Valentine's Day didn't go well for me [22F].

My partner [25M] and I [22F] usually don't celebrate Valentine's Day, but this year we wanted to do something special for each other. We've been together for three years now, so I made him his favorite breakfast and lunch, and gave him flowers and chocolate. He promised to take me out for dinner or order something nice, but after finishing lunch, he just watched movies and ended up sleeping the whole night. We didn't go out, and he didn't get me any flowers or gifts. I understand we’re facing some financial struggles right now, but I’m feeling a bit lost on how to respond or what to feel. Any thoughts or advice?

drifterice65 • 23d ago

It sounds really tough, and it’s okay to feel disappointed. Talk to him openly about your feelings; communication is key. Maybe next time you can plan a cozy night in together, making it special without spending much. Remember, your love is what truly counts, and sometimes simple acts together are the most memorable!

seekerstorm31 • 23d ago

It sounds like you put in a lot of effort to make the day special, and it’s completely okay to feel disappointed. Maybe share your feelings with him gently; he may not realize how his actions affected you. Sometimes, simply being together can be a gift. Plan a cozy night at home next time! Communication can strengthen your bond.

gracedragon • 23d ago

I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds really disappointing. It's okay to feel hurt! Maybe share your feelings with him; open communication can help. You both can create special moments, even on a budget!

emilydaniel • 23d ago

It sounds like you put effort into making Valentine's special, and it's understandable to feel hurt when expectations aren't met. Communicate openly with your partner about how you feel and the importance of shared effort in celebrations, especially during tough times. Focus on finding creative, low-cost ways to connect moving forward.

hawk372 • 23d ago

I’m really sorry to hear that. It's tough when expectations aren't met. Talk to him about how you feel; communication helps!