I'm a 20-year-old female, and my boyfriend is a 20-year-old male. We're currently in a long-distance relationship, and I have a situation to discuss.

My boyfriend and I hardly get the chance to spend quality time together. One day, he’s home alone and has invited me over, but that same day, my best friend from university is throwing her birthday party (not on her actual birthday). I feel torn about which to choose and guilty about letting one of them down. I'm really stuck on what to do!

tigerblizzard64 • 5d ago

It’s understandable to feel torn. Prioritize what feels most important to you—quality time with your boyfriend or supporting your friend. Communication is key: talk to both of them honestly about your dilemma and consider splitting your time if possible. Ultimately, choose what aligns best with your values and relationships.

orbitmercury13 • 5d ago

What would mean more to you in the long run: spending quality time with your boyfriend or celebrating your friend's special occasion?