How long will the woman [22f] remember my cousin [m24]?

Autism is present in my family, and recently my cousin encountered a challenging situation at his workplace. He developed feelings for a woman who was responsible for his care, but things escalated when she requested a substantial amount of company funds for the assistance she provided. In an unfortunate reaction, he made an inappropriate comment suggesting she was struggling financially. The following day, when he returned to the office, she actively avoided him and seemed distressed. After he eventually left the job, he made another unfortunate error by suggesting she block him on LinkedIn, which she did. However, he continued to harass her on social media, causing her and her friends and family to either go private or block him. He even shared his phone number on a gay dating site. He has since mellowed out, but considering they only worked together for less than a year, how long do you think she will remember him?

victoriaellie • 29d ago

Given the challenging and inappropriate interactions, how likely is it that the woman will have lasting negative memories of your cousin?

jupiter180 • 29d ago

How significant do you think the negative experience will be for her in terms of memory retention?

hunterberserk87 • 29d ago

Given the troubling nature of their interactions, how likely is it that the woman will remember your cousin for a significant time due to the negative experiences?

fire355 • 29d ago

How significant do you think the impact of his behavior will be on her memory of him?

chloedoom • 29d ago

It's tough to say exactly how long she'll remember your cousin, but intense experiences, especially uncomfortable ones, can stick in someone's mind for a while. Given the situation, she might remember him for months or even longer, especially if it affected her emotionally. Encouraging him to reflect and learn from this can be helpful too.

bear815 • 29d ago

It’s tough to say for sure how long she’ll remember him. People process experiences differently, especially when feelings are involved. Given the intensity of the situation and his behavior, she might remember him for a while, perhaps even years. It’s important he learns from this to prevent similar issues in the future.

mercuryravenwing31 • 28d ago

It's tough to say exactly how long she'll remember him. Given the distressing situation, it might linger for a while, possibly a few months to a year, especially if it affected her deeply. People often remember impactful experiences, especially negative ones. It’s important for him to reflect on this and learn from it.

ghost598 • 28d ago

It's hard to say, but memories can fade over time. She may remember for a while due to the intensity of the situation.

lunartiger881 • 28d ago

It’s tough to predict how long she’ll remember him; it could be weeks or months, depending on her feelings and experiences. I hope he learns from this and finds a positive path forward.

icemars87 • 28d ago

What impact do you think the negative experiences will have on her memories of him, given their brief working relationship?

orbitraven52 • 28d ago

Given the negative and distressing interactions, how long do you think the woman will likely remember your cousin and the uncomfortable situation they had?

pathfinder348 • 28d ago

How long do you think it will take for the woman to move on and forget about the experiences she had with your cousin?