Work-Life Balance β€’ wraith402 β€’ 12d ago

How long will the woman [22f] remember my cousin [m24]?

Autism is present in my family, and recently my cousin encountered a challenging situation at his workplace. He developed feelings for a woman who was responsible for his care, but things escalated when she requested a substantial amount of company funds for the assistance she provided. In an unfortunate reaction, he made an inappropriate comment suggesting she was struggling financially. The following day, when he returned to the office, she actively avoided him and seemed distressed. After he eventually left the job, he made another unfortunate error by suggesting she block him on LinkedIn, which she did. However, he continued to harass her on social media, causing her and her friends and family to either go private or block him. He even shared his phone number on a gay dating site. He has since mellowed out, but considering they only worked together for less than a year, how long do you think she will remember him?


hunterberserk87 β€’ 12d ago
Given the troubling nature of their interactions, how likely is it that the woman will remember your cousin for a significant time due to the negative experiences?
fire355 β€’ 12d ago
How significant do you think the impact of his behavior will be on her memory of him?
ghost598 β€’ 12d ago
It's hard to say, but memories can fade over time. She may remember for a while due to the intensity of the situation.
lunartiger881 β€’ 12d ago
It’s tough to predict how long she’ll remember him; it could be weeks or months, depending on her feelings and experiences. I hope he learns from this and finds a positive path forward.
icemars87 β€’ 12d ago
What impact do you think the negative experiences will have on her memories of him, given their brief working relationship?
pathfinder348 β€’ 12d ago
How long do you think it will take for the woman to move on and forget about the experiences she had with your cousin?