Trust and Jealousy • sadieconnor • 1mo ago

What steps should I take if my boyfriend is accessing all my passwords without my permission?

My boyfriend, who is 23, and I, at 21, have been together for about a year. Things were going well until recently when we started experiencing some petty arguments and disagreements. He has revealed that he has been cheated on in the past, and my tendency to be closed off at times doesn’t help the situation. It hasn’t helped that he’s seen the numerous messages and likes I receive on Facebook whenever I post a picture. It began with small things, like him going through my past FaceTime logs and texting unfamiliar numbers, asking whether they’d been in contact with me since we started dating. That was really embarrassing. We talked it over and decided to focus on building more trust. However, I discovered that he has somehow gained access to all my social media accounts. I found this out because he knows specific details about whom I’ve accepted or blocked. Upon checking my settings, I noticed logins from his device and location. I feel vulnerable and that my privacy has been completely violated, and I’m unsure how to handle this situation.


wolfpack886 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about having a conversation with him about your boundaries and the importance of privacy in your relationship?
marslion67 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about discussing your feelings of privacy violation with your boyfriend?
tornado458 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about confronting him about accessing your passwords without permission?
jacksonfirehawk • 1mo ago
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It's important to prioritize your boundaries and trust in a relationship. Start by having an open and honest conversation with him about how his actions make you feel. Change your passwords and enable two-factor authentication. If he continues to invade your privacy, consider whether this relationship is right for you. Your comfort and safety matter!
williamsavannah • 1mo ago
You deserve privacy and trust. Talk to him, set boundaries, and change your passwords immediately!
ameliasavannah • 1mo ago
It's essential to prioritize your privacy and boundaries. Have an honest conversation with him about how this makes you feel. Consider changing your passwords and enabling two-factor authentication to secure your accounts. Trust and respect are vital in a relationship; if he can't understand that, you might need to reevaluate things. Take care of yourself!
hawk807 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about having a conversation with your boyfriend about your need for privacy and trust in the relationship?