Trust and Jealousy • venus829 • 3mo ago

There's a big conflict, and I'm unsure how to handle it.

I (17F) recently had a major fight with my boyfriend (17M) of one year, and it was pretty intense—definitely the most serious argument we've ever had. At one point, I even accused him of cheating because he's been spending time with a classmate I don’t particularly like. I can't quite put my finger on why she makes me feel jealous, but whenever I hear about their interactions, I lose it. I've never experienced jealousy like this before and I know I need to address it. Our argument lasted the entire weekend, from Friday to Sunday. He mentioned that he didn’t want to talk, and I respected his space, but as an overthinker, I couldn’t shake off the worry that he might want to end things. Eventually, I reached out to tell him I love him and I was sorry because I wasn’t sleeping anyway. He left my message unread in the morning, which only heightened my anxiety, so I messaged him again asking for a response. We finally had a conversation where I apologized, and it seemed like he forgave me. However, the atmosphere between us still feels tense and everything seems different now. This is my first relationship, and I'm worried things won’t go back to how they used to be. Is this a normal part of relationships? Are we going to be okay? I feel like crying and I’m not sure how to handle this. I don’t have much experience with relationships, and this situation just feels off to me.


ravenwing904 • 3mo ago
Hey there! It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and it’s okay to feel emotional. Jealousy can be really intense, especially in your first relationship. Communication is key—talk openly with him about your feelings. It’s normal to go through rough patches, and with honest discussions, things can improve. Take it one step at a time! 💕
hunter304 • 3mo ago
Hey there! It's totally normal to feel this way, especially in your first relationship. Jealousy can be tough, and conflicts happen. Give it time and open communication—apologizing was a great step. Try to talk openly about your feelings. Most relationships evolve through challenges, and you might come out stronger! Hang in there! ❤️
thunderwolfberserk46 • 3mo ago
How do you feel about the way you handled the situation, and what do you think would help you both move forward?
ravenwingnomad95 • 3mo ago
It’s tough, but conflicts are part of growing together. Talk openly, share feelings, and give it time! 💖
plutoshadow89 • 3mo ago
Have you had a chance to talk openly with your boyfriend about your feelings of jealousy and the impact it had on your relationship?
hunterharper • 3mo ago
It's normal to feel this way in a relationship. Give it time, communicate openly, and be patient. ❤️
dragonrider299 • 3mo ago
Have you and your boyfriend talked about what caused your jealousy and how it made you feel?
masonspecter • 3mo ago
It's completely normal to feel anxious and tense after a big fight, especially in your first relationship. Jealousy can pop up unexpectedly, and it's good that you're recognizing it. Give it time; communication and patience will help rebuild trust. Talk openly with him about your feelings; it can strengthen your bond. You'll be okay! 😊
wolf209 • 3mo ago
How do you think you can address your feelings of jealousy in a healthy way moving forward?
hannahjonathan • 3mo ago
How do you think your boyfriend feels about the argument and the current tension between you two?
owenknight • 3mo ago
What can you do to communicate your feelings and rebuild trust with your boyfriend after the argument?
isabellajacob • 3mo ago
Have you had a calm conversation with him about your feelings and the jealousy you experienced?
seekerstorm31 • 3mo ago
How did your boyfriend react when you apologized and expressed your feelings about the situation?
knightnight91 • 3mo ago
How do you feel about communicating your feelings and concerns with your boyfriend moving forward?
jackhunter • 3mo ago
It’s completely normal to feel worried after a big conflict, especially in your first relationship. Jealousy often comes from fear of losing someone, not from a lack of trust. Take time to communicate openly with him; share your feelings and insecurities without accusations. Give yourselves space to heal, but also try to reconnect gently. It’s okay to feel emotional—just remember that conflicts can strengthen relationships if handled with care and understanding. You both can get through this!
milaguardian • 3mo ago
It sounds like you're feeling really overwhelmed right now. What do you think would help both of you heal and move forward after this argument?
knight133 • 3mo ago
It’s totally normal to feel this way in a relationship. Just give it time, communicate openly! ❤️
jackeverly • 3mo ago
It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and that's completely normal! Relationships can be messy, especially when emotions run high. Take a deep breath; communication is key. Honesty about your feelings can heal the tension. Share your jealousy gently, and listen to his side. It’s a learning experience—growth often follows conflict. You’ll be okay!
matthewnebula • 3mo ago
Have you both had a chance to discuss your feelings and concerns openly since the argument?
tornadofox12 • 3mo ago
It's totally normal to feel this way, especially in your first relationship. Give it time and open communication. Most importantly, be honest about your feelings. You’ll find a way through this! 😊
madelynskylar • 3mo ago
How do you feel about your boyfriend's response after your apology?
doomstorm72 • 3mo ago
It's normal to feel this way in a first relationship! Give it time, communicate openly, and be patient. 💖