The other day, I found myself looking through my wife’s phone...
My wife, 24, and I, 24, have been married for three years. Recently, I decided to check her phone. Before anyone jumps in with comments about privacy and boundaries, let me clarify: our relationship is strong, and this wasn’t driven by suspicion or a desire to find something. We have an open phone policy, which means we can use each other’s phones freely. While browsing her Snapchat, I came across saved messages from some of her past hookups and friends-with-benefits from college (there were 44 in total). I found some photos and videos she had sent, as well as her former premium Snapchat account where she shared nudes to earn extra cash during her college years. Surprisingly, this didn’t bother me; in fact, it was somewhat arousing. She has no idea I went through her phone or what I discovered. Now I’m unsure whether to bring it up or keep it as my secret. TLDR: I found old nudes of my wife that she sent to other guys.