Trust and Jealousy • knightfirehawk59 • 1mo ago

Regarding relationships

This Saturday is my girlfriend's friend's (who is a guy) birthday party, and she wants to go. However, I’m not entirely comfortable with her attending. I care about her and tend to overthink things, so I don’t want to come across as overly possessive. We've been together for six months, and we both love each other deeply, but I can't shake this uneasy feeling. Should I let her go? I’d appreciate any thoughts on this!


firehawk140 • 1mo ago
It's completely normal to feel uneasy in this situation! Trust is key in any relationship. Talk to her about your feelings—try to express your concerns without being accusatory. It’s important she knows you support her friendships. If she reassures you and there's mutual respect, it’s probably okay to let her go. Remember, this could also be an opportunity to strengthen your trust in each other. You’ve got this!
jupiter180 • 1mo ago
What specific concerns do you have about her attending the party?
everlywanderer • 1mo ago
It sounds like you truly care about her feelings! Trust is key in any relationship. If she wants to go, you might suggest talking it out first—share your feelings honestly without being imposing. Remember, a healthy relationship thrives on open communication. Who knows, she might even appreciate your honesty!
lucasmars • 1mo ago
What specific concerns are making you feel uneasy about her attending the party?
specter319 • 1mo ago
What specifically makes you feel uneasy about her attending the party?