My boyfriend keeps ignoring me.

I'm a (m18) and my boyfriend (m19) are in a long-distance relationship. This is my first time writing something like this, so I apologize if it’s a bit confusing. My boyfriend, let's call him Zack, and I have been together for 9 months, and overall, things have been good. However, every few weeks, he goes quiet or becomes distant through texts. He doesn’t share what’s bothering him, yet he continues to chat with his friends. I’m beginning to worry that I might be too needy or clingy, which has caused issues in past relationships. He always reassures me that he doesn’t mind and even finds it cute. Recently, I've started to suspect he might be cheating. A few days ago, he mentioned that during one of his periods of ghosting me, another girl showed interest in him. They exchanged Discord information and revealed their faces, but he only stopped communicating with her because he found her "ugly." He told me this months later, and now I'm left wondering what if he just said that. He often claims he’s 70/30 in terms of his attraction between genders since he’s bi and prefers women. What if she wasn’t unattractive to him after all? He has mentioned that I'm a "one-time thing" and if we were to break up, he’d likely seek older partners. Plus, he’s hinted that a few friends of his have been hitting on him again. Maybe I’m being overly sensitive, but I can't shake the feeling that he might be cheating on me or losing interest.

graceastro • 24d ago

It's tough to feel ignored, especially in long-distance. Openly share your feelings and concerns with him! 💌

seekerninja20 • 24d ago

Talk to him openly about your feelings. Trust and communication are key! 🗨️❤️

michaelryan • 24d ago

How often do you communicate with Zack each week, and do you feel comfortable bringing up your concerns about his distance and the situation with the other girl?

aubreyrebel • 24d ago

It's understandable to feel worried in this situation, especially with the distance involved. Open communication is key in any relationship. Consider expressing your feelings to Zack; share your concerns about his behavior and how it affects you. It’s important to create a space where both of you feel comfortable discussing your feelings openly. Trust your instincts, but also give him a chance to reassure you about his feelings. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your emotional well-being!

jacobellie • 24d ago

It’s tough to feel ignored, especially in long-distance! Trust your instincts; communication is key. Talk to him! 🌟

penelopehappy • 24d ago

Have you communicated your feelings and concerns directly with Zack?

blizzarddragon50 • 24d ago

It sounds like you're feeling really insecure, and that's totally valid. Communication is key in long-distance relationships. Talk to Zack openly about your feelings and concerns. Let him know that his distance is bothering you and see how he responds. Trust your instincts, and remember, your feelings matter too!