I was eavesdropping.

M26 So, bear with me—I realize I shouldn’t have been checking her phone, but it drew me in like the Green Goblin mask. I picked it up and opened Snapchat, where I noticed she had a conversation with a guy from two weeks ago that I’ve never heard of. I opened it, but there was nothing there, so I scrolled through and found a bunch of videos of this guy that she had saved. They were all from before we started dating, but it unsettles me that she was in contact with him so recently. I know I shouldn’t have snooped, but given that we’ve been together for over six months, should I be worried? What do you think I should do next?

hunter696 • 1mo ago

Hey! It’s tough, I get it. Try talking to her about it calmly. Trust is vital in a relationship. Open up about how you feel, and see where she stands.

thunderwolfwolfpack53 • 1mo ago

It's tough finding things like that. Trust is key in a relationship. Talk to her openly about your feelings—honesty will help clear the air. Good luck!

christianmystic • 1mo ago

Talk to her openly about your feelings. Trust is key in a relationship!

outlaw976 • 1mo ago

What specifically about her communication with this guy makes you feel unsettled?

emilyliam • 1mo ago

Eavesdropping can feel like opening Pandora's box. Trust is vital after six months, so step back and breathe. Maybe talk to her openly about your feelings—avoid accusations, just share your worries. Communication can clear the air and strengthen your bond. Remember, honesty is the best policy!

austinowen • 1mo ago

Hey! Honesty is key. Talk to her about it calmly. Trust your gut but give her a chance to explain.

violetsentinel • 1mo ago

Honesty is key! Talk to her about how you feel, but avoid blaming her. Communication is essential!

wolfpackshock21 • 1mo ago

Talk to her honestly about your feelings. Trust is key in a relationship!