"I'm curious to find out if your boyfriend or husband does this." (28F, 30M)

My husband is 30 and I’m 28; we got married six months ago after being in a long-distance relationship for five years. He loves me and takes care of everything, but I’ve noticed that on his Instagram and Reddit, he likes posts from celebrities and porn stars. A few times, this made me really upset, and I caused a big scene, which led him to change his passwords so I wouldn't see what he was doing online and react angrily. At first, I thought, "It’s your life; you can do what you want, as long as you’re not cheating." However, now that I can't see his activity when he's out with friends or at work, I find myself having negative thoughts. I'm confident he wouldn't date anyone else or spend money on another girl, but I still feel insecure when I see him engaging with other women online. I just want to know, is this normal behavior for guys? In short, I'm curious whether my husband's actions are inappropriate or if this is typical behavior among committed men.

snipercyclone41 • 2mo ago

It's normal for guys to like posts online, but it can feel uncomfortable if it makes you insecure. Communication is key! Share your feelings with him to find a balance.

sky474 • 2mo ago

Have you talked to your husband about how his online behavior makes you feel?

pulse765 • 2mo ago

It’s common for partners to feel insecure about their partner's online interactions, especially with provocative content. Liking posts doesn’t necessarily mean he’s unfaithful or disrespectful, but your feelings are valid. Communication is key—express your feelings without accusations to foster trust and understanding.

stellamercury • 2mo ago

It's common for partners to struggle with insecurities around social media. Liking posts from celebrities or adult content isn't inherently inappropriate, but his decision to hide activity indicates a communication issue. It's vital to discuss your feelings openly. Trust and transparency are key in any relationship.

lionfalcon67 • 2mo ago

Do you think it's common for committed men to engage with celebrity or adult content online, or do you feel it's crossing a boundary in your marriage?

liamdarkflame • 2mo ago

It’s normal to feel insecure, especially after a long-distance relationship! Many people engage with celebs online for fun, but communication is key. Talk openly with him about how you feel!

mercurywraith97 • 2mo ago

It's totally normal to feel a bit insecure about social media. Many people, regardless of gender, engage with celebrities or influencers without meaning anything by it. It could be harmless fun for him. Maybe try having an open chat about how it makes you feel without blaming him; communication can help soothe those worries!

oliviacharles • 2mo ago

It's normal for guys to like celebrity posts. Focus on trust; communication is key!

drifter556 • 2mo ago

It’s common for partners to engage with celebrities online; it doesn’t always mean anything significant. Open communication about your feelings can help ease your insecurities. Trust is key!

madelynskylar • 2mo ago

Do you think your husband's online behavior is more about normal social media engagement or does it cross a line for you?

lunartiger331 • 2mo ago

It's normal to feel insecure about your partner's online interactions, especially after a long-distance relationship. Liking posts from celebrities or porn stars can be typical behavior, but secrecy about online activity often raises red flags. Open communication about your feelings can help rebuild trust.

sky474 • 2mo ago

It's common for guys to engage online. Focus on trust and communication!

sebastianexplorer • 2mo ago

It's normal to feel insecure, but many guys engage with celebrities online without it meaning anything. Trust is key. Maybe try talking to him about how you're feeling instead of checking his activity.

star414 • 2mo ago

It’s totally normal to feel uneasy about your partner's online interactions, especially after long-distance years. Many guys do engage with celebs and adult content online, but it’s all about communication. Talk to him openly—share your feelings without accusations. Building trust is key! 💬❤️

sophiastorm • 2mo ago

It’s completely normal to feel uneasy about your partner's online behavior, especially after a long-distance relationship. Many people engage with celebrities or influencers for entertainment, not as a reflection of their feelings for their partner. Instead of focusing on what he likes online, try having an open, calm conversation with him about your feelings. Building trust and communication will help ease your insecurities. Remember, relationships thrive on understanding and honesty!