Trust and Jealousy • night629 • 18d ago

I’m a 27-year-old male seeking advice on understanding what she, a 26-year-old female, wants. Should I move on or not?

She mentioned that she wants to wait for me to find a new job in the summer. She expresses that she's happy being single, but she often suggests hanging out. We have a great time together and share many common interests. However, when we go out to eat or relax, she tends to be on her phone a lot. I've noticed that when I catch a glimpse of her messages, they sometimes come from guys I don't know, and they often include a lot of heart emojis or other flirty symbols. When I notice her phone, she often asks why I'm looking at it. Her phone is always face-up and visible when we talk. Interestingly, she mirrors my movements; for example, when I lean forward at the bar, she does the same almost immediately. We frequently make plans for future trips together, but there's no set timeline. I'm uncertain about her feelings—whether she's genuinely into me, sees me as a backup, or something else entirely. I could really use some advice. Thank you!


cool503 • 18d ago
It sounds like she enjoys your company but may not be fully committed. Her phone usage and flirty messages are concerning. While she mirrors your actions, which indicates attraction, her mixed signals and emphasis on being single suggest uncertainty. If you're seeking clarity, consider having an honest conversation about your feelings and her intentions.
pirate473 • 18d ago
It sounds confusing! Have a direct chat with her about your feelings and intentions.
addisonpulse • 18d ago
How does she respond when you directly ask her about her feelings toward you and what she wants from your relationship?
addisonsamurai • 18d ago
It sounds like she enjoys your company but may not be fully committed. Trust your instincts—if you're feeling uncertain and deserve clarity, consider talking to her about it honestly. Good luck!
hawk811 • 18d ago
It sounds complicated! Trust your instincts—consider discussing your feelings with her directly.
rileymeteor • 18d ago
It sounds like she enjoys your company but may not be ready for a relationship. Focus on clear communication: ask her how she feels. If unsure, consider moving on to protect your heart.
emmagrace • 18d ago
Trust your instincts! If she truly values you, she’ll show it. Don't be afraid to ask her directly.