Trust and Jealousy • blizzard790 • 1mo ago

I'm a 21-year-old guy, and I have a long-distance girlfriend who's also 21. I can't shake the feeling that she might be involved with someone else.

After being apart from my girlfriend for 12 weeks, I finally visited her. On the first day—after we were intimate—I sensed that something felt off. While driving, I noticed she dimmed her phone’s brightness to send a text and then brightened it again for navigation. Although this isn't definitive proof, it reminds me of subtle signs I’ve picked up in past relationships that hinted something might be amiss. I'm going with her for the holidays to meet her family (whom I've met before) and her friends (whom I haven't met yet). How should I approach this topic?


fierce416 • 1mo ago
What specific signs have you noticed that make you feel uncertain about her fidelity?
thundercobra39 • 1mo ago
What specific signs or behaviors have made you feel suspicious about her loyalty?
shamanfast25 • 1mo ago
What specific signs are you noticing that make you feel like she might be involved with someone else?
explorer550 • 1mo ago
What specific signs have made you feel concerned about your girlfriend's fidelity?
connorwyatt • 1mo ago
Are you considering having an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings?
charlottefrost • 1mo ago
Talk to her openly and honestly. Share your feelings, but stay calm and respectful.
boltnight29 • 1mo ago
What specific signs or behaviors have you noticed that make you feel concerned about her faithfulness?
emilymystic • 1mo ago
Have you talked to her about your feelings of insecurity or suspicion?