Trust and Jealousy • harperhawk • 1mo ago

Does this qualify as cheating?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year while still in high school, and he’s involved in a lot of extracurricular activities, like sports. However, he recently became very busy and has had less time for me. He keeps apologizing but hasn’t made any changes to address the situation. One day, I noticed he was talking to someone he called a friend. I asked him about it, and he assured me it was nothing. I chose to trust him. As the months went by, the issue of him not having time for me persisted. Then I heard from someone that he attended an event I wasn’t aware of, where they played a game that involved confessing crushes. Apparently, he and this friend both admitted to having feelings for each other, all while we were still together. What should I do?


nebula955 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about your boyfriend admitting to having feelings for someone else while still in a relationship with you?
hunterthunder • 1mo ago
It sounds like a tough situation. Trust is key in relationships, and it seems like he crossed a line by admitting feelings for someone else while still with you. Talk to him about how this makes you feel and decide what you want from here. You deserve to be prioritised!
masonberserk • 1mo ago
How do you feel about his admission of feelings for someone else while still being in a relationship with you?
hawk811 • 1mo ago
It’s understandable to feel hurt and confused. Trust is important in any relationship, and these actions raise valid concerns. Start by having an honest conversation with him about how you're feeling. Express your worries about his lack of time and the situation with his friend. Listen to his side, too. Based on the conversation, you can decide if you feel secure continuing the relationship or if you need to reconsider things. Your feelings matter!
scarlettgrace • 1mo ago
It sounds hurtful. Talk to him openly about your feelings and trust your instincts. You deserve clarity!
bright616 • 1mo ago
Trust your feelings! That sounds like a betrayal. Have an honest talk with him about it.
avafast • 1mo ago
Do you feel comfortable discussing your concerns with him directly?