Trust and Jealousy • johnzoe • 5d ago

Does my girlfriend still have feelings for her previous relationships?

This is my first post, so please go easy on me! I’m not great with tech, so I might be overthinking things. I’m a 25-year-old guy and she’s a 21-year-old girl. We’ve been dating for three months. Recently, she lent me her MacBook since mine was broken and I was waiting for a new one. While she stepped out, I accidentally looked through her photos. I found images of her old exes, and there are also some exes in her favorites. Now, I’m wondering with all this iCloud photo syncing—when I delete photos from my iPhone, do they automatically get deleted from her Mac? I just tried it on my new Mac, and photos I delete from my iPhone don’t get removed from the Mac. Am I overreacting, or has she kept these for a reason? I could really use some advice, because I'm feeling a bit lost!


williamphoenix • 5d ago
It's normal to feel unsure, but trust and communication are key. Ask her about it!
chloeoliver • 5d ago
It’s totally normal to feel a bit uneasy about this! Just remember, her past doesn’t define her feelings for you. Photos can just be memories—not necessarily a sign of lingering feelings. Have a gentle chat with her about it; openness can ease your mind. You're doing great, just take it one step at a time!