Does constantly thinking about breaking up indicate something is wrong in my relationship?

My boyfriend (22) and I (23) have been together for some time, and overall, things have been good. However, we’ve had our share of rough times, including arguments, him lying about things, and general annoyances that have led to more conflict. After dealing with his lies, I find myself feeling uneasy in our relationship. We’ve tried talking things over and giving each other some space, but we quickly fell back into our routine. I can't shake the feeling of uncertainty—I'm torn between whether staying with him is the right decision or if breaking up would be better. Will I regret either choice? I love him, and he treats me well, but I’m no longer confident in our relationship. I want to leave, yet I also want to stay. I’m feeling really conflicted, and I would appreciate any advice or perspectives on this situation.

ravenwingphoenix17 • 23d ago

Constantly thinking about breaking up often signals underlying issues in a relationship. Trust is crucial, and his past lies may have damaged that. It's important to assess whether the love and good times outweigh the conflict and uncertainty. Reflect on your needs and feelings—consider talking to a counselor for clarity.

aidenpulse • 23d ago

It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and those feelings of uncertainty are completely valid. Take a moment for yourself—reflect on what truly makes you happy. Sometimes, a break can provide clarity. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your peace. Trust your heart; it’ll guide you towards the answer you seek.