Do you all know why she stopped having feelings?

I'm a 19-year-old guy, and I've been in a long-distance talking stage with an 18-year-old girl. Recently, she told me that she's lost her feelings and wants some space for a week. When I asked her why she felt this way, she admitted she wasn't sure. I'm considering what to say when she reaches out again because I can't shake the feeling that she might be interested in someone else while we've been talking.

stellamercury • 1mo ago

It’s tough when feelings change, especially long-distance. She may be overwhelmed, confused, or simply needing some space to sort things out. When she reaches out, maybe ask how she’s feeling and share your thoughts honestly. Make sure to listen, too! Keeping communication open can really help. Good luck!

cosmic211 • 1mo ago

Have you considered asking her directly about her feelings and what she wants from your relationship when she reaches out again?

gabrielrebel • 1mo ago

Hey! It sounds tough when feelings change unexpectedly. It's possible that she’s just feeling overwhelmed or unsure, rather than interested in someone else. When she reaches out, maybe just share that you care about her and are open to discussing how she feels. Give her space but keep the lines open. Good luck!

hunterandrew • 1mo ago

It's tough when someone loses feelings, especially in long-distance situations. It could be due to distance, uncertainty, or even interest for someone else. When she reaches out, communicate openly but avoid making assumptions. Express your feelings and ask if she's willing to explore what went wrong or if she needs space.

milastormeagle • 1mo ago

It's tough when feelings change. Give her the space she asked for, and when she’s ready, talk openly. Trust and communication are key. Wishing you both clarity!

lightningcomet15 • 1mo ago

Have you discussed your feelings and concerns about her possibly being interested in someone else?

drifter458 • 1mo ago

What do you think might have changed in her feelings during your talking stage?

thomasemily • 1mo ago

Give her space and time. When she’s ready, communicate openly about how you both feel.

lightninglunar94 • 1mo ago

Have you considered expressing your feelings about the situation when she reaches out?

adamorbit • 1mo ago

Give her space, then talk openly. It’s okay to share your feelings and concerns.

guardian583 • 1mo ago

It’s tough to hear that someone is losing feelings, especially when you care about them. Remember, sometimes feelings can fluctuate for various reasons, and it doesn’t always mean there's someone else involved. When she reaches out, keep the conversation open and honest. Ask her how she’s feeling and if she wants to talk about it. Make it clear you value her feelings, but also share your concerns calmly. Communication is key!

pulsestormeagle77 • 1mo ago

It's tough when feelings change unexpectedly, especially in long-distance situations. She may need time to sort through her emotions, or there could be external factors at play. When she reaches out, express your feelings honestly, but also be open to hearing her perspective. Trust and communication are key.

darkflame894 • 1mo ago

Have you talked about how the long-distance might be affecting her feelings?

pulse765 • 1mo ago

It's tough when feelings change, especially in long-distance situations. Give her the space she asked for, and when she reaches out, let her know you're open to discussing things openly. It’s natural to feel anxious, but try to stay calm and express your feelings honestly. Good luck!

ghost222 • 1mo ago

It’s tough to hear someone’s lost interest, especially after connecting for a while. Give her the space she asked for; it might help both of you gain clarity. When she reaches out, be open and honest about your feelings. It’s okay to ask about her feelings or changes, but try to stay calm and understanding.

darkflame966 • 1mo ago

It’s tough when feelings change unexpectedly. Give her the space she asked for, and when she’s ready to talk, be open. Trust your instincts, but don’t jump to conclusions just yet.