Trust and Jealousy • rocket969 • 15d ago

Can a relationship survive after deceit? [26M] [25F]

I’ll keep this brief since it’s a lengthy story and we’ve been discussing it for the past two days. I discovered that my wife was dishonest about something early on in our relationship. What’s really hurting me isn’t the lie itself, but the fact that I had to extract the truth from her, despite giving her several opportunities to be honest during our conversations. Now, I can’t help but wonder what else she might have lied about. Still, I love her and find myself seeking advice from strangers. What’s the biggest lie you’ve encountered in your relationship, and how did you work through it? I’d especially like to hear from those currently in relationships, but I appreciate all responses! Thanks in advance!


christianthunder • 15d ago
Yes, relationships can survive deceit, but trust takes time to rebuild. Open communication is key!
nomad989 • 15d ago
Once, I learned my partner had hidden a past relationship, thinking it would protect me. I was hurt, feeling trust slip away. We sat down, pouring out feelings. With honesty, we rebuilt our bond stronger than before. It taught us that while deceit can sting, communication can heal. Love can overcome if both are willing.
jackemma • 15d ago
It's completely understandable to feel hurt and confused after discovering a lie, especially when trust is jeopardized. Relationships can survive deceit if both partners are willing to communicate openly, address the underlying issues, and commit to rebuilding trust. It’s important to express your feelings to your wife and discuss how to move forward together. Seeking professional guidance might also help you both navigate this tricky situation. Remember, honesty and vulnerability are key!
sebastianadam • 15d ago
How did you feel after discovering the deceit, and what steps are you considering to rebuild trust in your relationship?
fastfierce91 • 15d ago
How did you rebuild trust after discovering a significant lie in your relationship?
miaconnor • 15d ago
How do you feel about the trust in your relationship after discovering the lie?