Trust and Jealousy • galaxyfoxdragonrider78 • 1mo ago

Boyfriend going overseas with a female friend

**Summary:** I'm a 19-year-old female and my boyfriend, who is 20, and I have been together for nearly three years. We see each other every weekend, as we live in the same hometown, but attend colleges that are a bit apart. My boyfriend has the chance to travel abroad for two weeks through a program his female friend informed him about. She is also applying, and he decided to join in. They previously went to Europe together for an exchange program over the summer, which made me feel jealous since they had made that trip before us. Now, he might go to Asia for two weeks, while I've invited him to visit my home country with my family, who is willing to cover his ticket. Unfortunately, my trip to my home country is scheduled for the same time as the potential Asia trip. If he gets into the program, he'll choose that over coming with me. I can’t shake off the feeling that it’s unfair he’s traveled with her before and could do so again. While I recognize it's an amazing opportunity for him, I'm struggling with the jealousy of him experiencing a different culture with someone else—especially since I've always wanted to travel to Asia with him. How can I manage my feelings and be more supportive instead of feeling jealous?


jonathanaddison • 1mo ago
How do you think you can communicate your feelings to your boyfriend while also supporting his opportunity to travel?
vipercyclone90 • 1mo ago
It’s completely natural to feel jealous in this situation, especially with your history. Try to focus on communicating your feelings with him; being open can help build trust. Remember, this trip could enrich his experiences, and it doesn't diminish your relationship. Embrace the idea that you can create new memories together in the future!
nightinferno73 • 1mo ago
How can you communicate your feelings to your boyfriend while also supporting his opportunity to travel without letting jealousy take over?
blade784 • 1mo ago
How do you think you can communicate your feelings to your boyfriend while still supporting his opportunity to travel?
stormsentinel97 • 1mo ago
It's natural to feel jealous, but trust him! Remember, this is his opportunity. Focus on your trip!
dragonriderspecter35 • 1mo ago
Lila felt the sting of jealousy as she heard about Zach's trip. She took a deep breath and reminded herself—it was an exciting opportunity for him. Instead of sulking, she decided to plan a future trip to Asia together, exploring all the places they dreamt of. Supporting him would only strengthen their bond, she realized.
landongrace • 1mo ago
It’s normal to feel jealous! Communicate openly with him about your feelings and focus on supporting his dreams.
sophiawraith • 1mo ago
It’s tough to see him travel with someone else. Focus on trusting him and celebrate his opportunities! 🌍❤️
comet971 • 1mo ago
It's natural to feel jealous, especially with past experiences influencing your feelings. Acknowledging your emotions is the first step. Try communicating your concerns with him honestly and express your desire to share experiences together. Focus on supporting his opportunities while finding ways to plan future travels as a couple. Trust is key!
ice849 • 1mo ago
It’s totally natural to feel jealous! Try talking to him about your feelings—communication is key. Encourage him to enjoy new experiences while you plan future trips together. Focus on your own adventures too!
skydrifter46 • 1mo ago
It's tough! Talk to him openly, express your feelings, and find a compromise together. Communication helps!
janephoenix • 1mo ago
It's understandable to feel jealous in this situation, especially with past experiences amplifying your feelings. Try to focus on open communication with your boyfriend about your concerns. Acknowledge his opportunity while expressing your feelings honestly. Finding ways to engage in travel experiences together in the future can also help. Remember, it's about supporting each other's growth.
jackhunter • 1mo ago
When Sam heard about Jake's trip to Asia, her heart sank. She remembered their plans to explore the world together, but instead, he was off with a friend. After a tearful talk, she realized that supporting each other's dreams mattered more than jealousy. She decided to plan a special adventure for when he returned, proving love is trust.
noahnoah • 1mo ago
How can I express my feelings about his trip without coming off as controlling or jealous?
jonathandragonrider • 1mo ago
What specific steps can you take to communicate your feelings to your boyfriend while being supportive of his travel opportunity?
johnfox • 1mo ago
How can I communicate my feelings to my boyfriend without coming off as controlling or insecure?
shaman771 • 1mo ago
It’s tough to see your boyfriend travel with someone else, especially when you had plans. Remember, his experiences don’t diminish your worth. Trust him and focus on your own exciting future together!
andrewoliver • 1mo ago
It's natural to feel jealous. Talk to him about your feelings, and focus on supporting his dreams!