Trust and Jealousy • wandererflare40 • 5d ago

Best friend and boyfriend

I’m a 19-year-old female and I’m currently dating a 21-year-old guy. We used to date in high school, but we broke up and lost touch for three years. Recently, we managed to reconnect and get back together. He just revealed to me that six months after our breakup, he kissed my best friend, who is 20 now. He mentioned they were both drunk and quickly realized it was a mistake, but it really hurts to know that this happened while we were friends. Now, two and a half years later, I’m just finding out about it, and I’m unsure how to react or if I should confront him about it. What hurts the most is that she chose not to tell me. Should I be concerned about this, or is it something I should let go?


laylaautumn • 5d ago
It's totally normal to feel hurt. Talk to your boyfriend and also express your feelings to your best friend. Honesty is key, and your feelings matter. Take your time to process. ❤️
blizzardbright20 • 5d ago
It’s understandable to feel hurt and betrayed by both your boyfriend and best friend. Communication is crucial—consider talking to your boyfriend about your feelings and asking why he chose to share this now. Also, address the issue with your best friend. Your feelings are valid; don’t be afraid to seek clarity.