When you're feeling less knowledgeable in a relationship, what should I do? Any advice?

Hello, I'm a 20-year-old girl in a very loving relationship with my classmate, who is also 20. We've known each other since childhood. He's generally very kind to everyone, but occasionally he does mistreat me. I understand that people can have moments of anger or frustration, but I find his behavior uncomfortable. Additionally, I experience significant mood swings during my menstrual cycle, which can last about two weeks, making me more irritable than usual. We've been together for so long that he often teases me, and sometimes it feels like he doesn't appreciate me. However, after a while, his efforts tend to win me over again. I love him dearly and don't want to break up, as I truly believe he's a wonderful person. I often spoil him, but there are moments when I feel frustrated and even resentful. Do any guys have advice on how to navigate this situation?

lionfalcon67 • 1mo ago

It's great that you're reflecting on your feelings! Open communication is key. Share how his teasing makes you feel, especially during your mood swings. Establish boundaries on what’s acceptable behavior and remind him of your love for each other. It’s okay to express frustration—your feelings are valid! Spend time focusing on self-care during tough moments, and remember, it’s important for both of you to feel appreciated in the relationship.

marslightning83 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a challenging spot. What specific behaviors from him make you feel undervalued, and have you been able to communicate these feelings to him?