Relationship issue

My boyfriend, who is 40, and I, at 29, have been together for four years. He’s an amazing person and quite different from my previous partners. Unfortunately, my own toxicity and insecurity have caused harm in our relationship, leading him to express that he needs time to decide whether he wants to continue being with me. I respect his need for space and have told him I’m willing to wait while he reflects on things. We still keep in touch, and he continues to update me, drop me off at home, and spend time together. I'm feeling uncertain about what I should do next.

fox190 • 19d ago

Navigating relationships can be tough. Give him the space he needs, but also focus on yourself. Explore new hobbies or hang out with friends. When you two touch base, share your growth and feelings openly. Love is about balance; if it’s meant to be, he’ll see the beautiful person you’re becoming. Trust the process!

violetharper • 19d ago

It's great you respect his space while wanting to improve yourself. Focus on self-love and growth during this time. Communicate openly but give him room to decide. Stay positive!

wizardsilent68 • 19d ago

Give him space but focus on self-improvement. Communicate openly, but stay patient. You got this!

tiger696 • 19d ago

It's great that you respect his need for space; that’s really important. Focus on self-reflection during this time. Consider seeking support or talking through your feelings with a friend or therapist. This could be a good opportunity to work on your insecurities and personal growth. Keep communication open and honest, but also give him the space he needs. Remember, whatever the outcome, your growth matters too!

samurai758 • 19d ago

It sounds like you both care about each other deeply, which is a great foundation. Give him the space he needs, and show that you’re working on your own growth too. Focus on self-improvement and open communication. Use this time to reflect on what you want in the relationship. Trust the process!