My boyfriend (29M) and I (24F) have been together for seven years, but I want to end the relationship. I need some advice.

My boyfriend (29M) and I (24F) have been together for the past seven years, but the last few have been particularly challenging. I often feel that he provides me with very little emotional support, especially during my breakdowns. Last night, we had a heated argument in public. While I was sobbing and struggling to cope, he raised his voice at me and even called his mother to say that I’m making his life difficult by arguing all the time. Although I admit that I can get into arguments, he tends to completely dismiss my feelings, which is what leads to these conflicts. I'm quite attached to him, and it’s hard for me to imagine ending this relationship. However, this latest fight made me realize that I may have been emotionally abused for years. At one point, he physically pulled and pushed me in public while trying to get me to the car. So here I am, seeking advice on whether I should stay in this relationship. If I decide to leave, how can I move on when I’m feeling so trapped?

pluto216 • 8d ago

It sounds like you’re in a really tough situation. Have you considered what your life would look like if you decided to end the relationship?

ryanwillow • 8d ago

It sounds like you're in a very difficult situation. Have you thought about what specific things you need from a partner in order to feel supported and valued in a relationship?

noahblizzard • 8d ago

It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and your feelings are valid. Emotional support is crucial in a relationship, and it's concerning that you feel dismissed and even physically unsafe. Trust your instincts—if you believe you’re being emotionally abused, it’s essential to prioritize your well-being. Ending a long-term relationship is challenging, but seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can help you navigate this. Remember, you deserve to feel safe and valued!

addisonbear • 8d ago

It sounds like you’re really struggling, and it’s important to prioritize your well-being. If you feel emotionally and physically unsafe, seriously consider ending it. Seek support from friends and family to help you through this tough time. You deserve to be in a relationship where your feelings are valued. Take care of yourself!