Toxic Relationships ā€¢ hunterraven12 ā€¢ 3d ago

My (23, Transgender Male) situationship with a 22-year-old guy is quite unstable.

I've (23FTM) been involved in a situationship with a guy (22M) for a few months, and lately, I've found myself increasingly unsure about where things stand. Let me give you some background... We were together for a few days when he realized he needed some space from relationships. He told me he needed time, started seeing someone else a few weeks later, and stated it was because I'm "difficult." However, that relationship ended within a week because he genuinely needed time to work on himself. He has told me that he still likes me, but maintains that he needs to focus on self-improvement first. Even though this situation hurt me, I held onto hope that we could possibly make it work in the future. We recently took a trip to a hotel in another city to celebrate the holidays and enjoy some drinks. While it was a good time, I've started reflecting on our issues and the moments when I felt hurt. 1. We have significant differences that might seem trivial to others. Iā€™m a huge movie fan, especially of comedies, while he enjoys movies but shies away from any hint of


fire466 ā€¢ 3d ago
It sounds like you're in a tough spot, feeling hopeful yet hurt. Give yourself permission to feel those mixed emotions. It's important to communicate openly with him about your feelings and the uncertainties. Consider whether you're willing to wait or if you'd rather invest your energy elsewhere. Prioritizing your emotional well-being is key, so spend time reflecting on what you truly want. Remember, it's okay to choose what feels best for you!