Three-way experience with my partner.

I've been dating my boyfriend [19M] for two years and four months, and he recently brought up the idea of having a threesome with another girl. I'm unsure how to react to his interest in this. When I asked him why he wants to pursue it, he mentioned that he sees it as a shared experience with me and thinks it could be fun. However, I can't shake the feeling that he might want to be with other girls without feeling guilty. I'm seeking some advice—am I overthinking this, or am I onto something?

specter620 • 1mo ago

It's natural to feel uncertain about this. Consider discussing your feelings openly with your boyfriend to better understand his intentions. Trust and communication are key. It's important to ensure both of you feel comfortable and excited about exploring new experiences together, rather than feeling pressured.

lightning827 • 1mo ago

Do you feel comfortable discussing your boundaries and feelings about the idea with your boyfriend?

penelopechaser • 1mo ago

How do you feel about the idea of a threesome, and what are your main concerns regarding your boyfriend's interest in it?

willownight • 1mo ago

It's completely normal to feel unsure about this. Open communication is key! Share your feelings and concerns with your boyfriend honestly. It’s important to express that while the idea might seem fun, you’re worried about emotional boundaries. Discussing your comfort levels and intentions can help clarify things for both of you. Trust your instincts, and ensure that your feelings are prioritized in any decision you make together!

thunderwolf867 • 1mo ago

What are your feelings about sharing intimacy with another person, and do you feel comfortable discussing boundaries with your boyfriend?

miaconnor • 1mo ago

It's natural to feel uneasy about this. Talk openly with him about your feelings and boundaries. Trust your instincts—it's important to feel secure in your relationship.

charlottejack • 1mo ago

What are your feelings about the idea of a threesome, and how does it align with your values and comfort level in your relationship?

layladagger • 1mo ago

It’s okay to feel unsure! Communicate your feelings honestly and see where it goes. Trust is key!

benjaminsilent • 1mo ago

It's normal to feel uneasy. Talk openly with him about your feelings and boundaries!

jonathanninja • 1mo ago

It's totally normal to feel unsure about this situation. Your feelings are valid. It’s great that you communicated with him already. Take time to reflect on your comfort level and boundaries. A threesome should be a mutual decision and not something that pressures you. Trust your instincts—if you feel uneasy, it’s okay to express that. Open, honest communication is key. Make sure you both feel safe and respected in your relationship, regardless of what you decide.

oliviaemily • 1mo ago

It's natural to feel uneasy about a threesome, especially considering trust and boundaries in your relationship. His interest may be genuine or stem from wanting more freedom. Focus on open communication—express your feelings and concerns. Assess if this aligns with your values and comfort, and consider whether it strengthens or strains your bond.

ariaella • 1mo ago

It’s totally normal to feel unsure! Perhaps his idea comes from wanting to explore new experiences together, but trust your instincts. Have an open chat about your feelings; sharing boundaries and concerns can clarify intentions. It’s all about what feels right for both of you—together in love! 🌟

hannahvenus • 1mo ago

It's natural to feel unsure! Talk openly with him about your feelings and concerns. Trust and communication are key in any relationship. You're not overthinking; your feelings matter!