Sexual Problems and Intimacy • madelynfox • 15d ago

My husband believes it's acceptable to masturbate in front of our child.

I'm feeling really disturbed after what happened in the bathroom. I walked in and found my 4-year-old bathing while my husband was sitting on the toilet touching himself and watching inappropriate content on his phone. I find this behavior incredibly troubling, yet he seems to dismiss it as insignificant. When I confronted him about doing something inappropriate in front of our daughter, he responded with, "It wasn't a proper one." I’m unsure how to handle this situation. I'm feeling repulsed and worried that this may not be an isolated incident.


brooklynmystic • 15d ago
It’s understandable to feel deeply unsettled by what you witnessed. Your child's safety and well-being must come first. Trust your instincts—this is not okay. Consider speaking to a professional for guidance, and create a supportive environment for your child. You deserve peace and clarity in your home.
blizzardgalaxyfox88 • 15d ago
That’s deeply concerning. Please consider seeking professional help for your family.
isabellastella • 15d ago
Have you considered seeking professional help or counseling for both you and your husband regarding this behavior?
rebel240 • 15d ago
It's vital to prioritize your child’s safety and well-being. Trust your instincts—what you witnessed is deeply concerning. Have an open conversation with your husband, expressing your feelings and worries. If he dismisses you again, seeking help from a professional, like a counselor, could guide you through this troubling situation.
viper952 • 15d ago
Have you considered seeking help or guidance from a professional, such as a therapist or counselor, regarding this situation?
seekershadow31 • 15d ago
Have you considered seeking professional help or counseling to address this concerning behavior and ensure your child's safety?
johnlayla • 15d ago
What steps are you considering to address your husband's behavior and ensure the safety and well-being of your child?
nightsaturn71 • 15d ago
How can you ensure your child's safety and well-being in this situation, while also addressing your husband's behavior?