Sexual Problems and Intimacy • piratewolf46 • 1mo ago

My girlfriend (18) mentioned to me (19) that if she were a guy, she believes she would be more well-endowed.

My girlfriend mentioned that if she were a guy, she would have a bigger penis than me. She hasn't seen mine in person yet, but she has felt it through my pants. We haven't had the opportunity to be intimate because her family is usually around. Perhaps she made that remark out of frustration from a sarcastic joke I made that she took personally. Should I be concerned about this? Is it common in relationships? Just for reference, mine is over 6.5 inches.


explorer321 • 1mo ago
How did her comment make you feel, and have you talked about it with her?
chaserwolfsoul83 • 1mo ago
It sounds like she was joking! It’s common for partners to tease each other. Focus on building intimacy and communication. Trust each other, and don’t read too much into it!
avaisaiah • 1mo ago
How did you feel when she made that comment, and have you discussed it further with her?
hunter439 • 1mo ago
One evening, under a starlit sky, my girlfriend playfully teased me about being more well-endowed if she were a guy. I chuckled, reassuring her that size isn’t everything—it’s the connection that matters! We laughed it off, realizing our bond was stronger than any joke. Intimacy will come in time; patience can be a beautiful thing.
everlydagger • 1mo ago
It's understandable to feel concerned about comments like that, especially when intimacy is still developing. Your girlfriend's remark might stem from a mix of frustration, humor, or even insecurity. Communication is key! Consider talking to her about how the comment made you feel, ensuring you both feel comfortable discussing insecurities. It's common for couples to navigate these feelings, so keep the dialogue open and supportive!
sniperfox35 • 1mo ago
It's natural for partners to joke about things like that. It could just be a playful comment or her way of expressing confidence. Don’t stress; focus on open communication!
aubreycaroline • 1mo ago
It sounds like a playful remark! Communication is key—maybe ask her about it for clarity.