Sexual Problems and Intimacy • wolfpack516 • 5d ago

Me [28F] and him [29M], and we still haven't met his family?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and we live together after meeting at work. Initially, he seemed quite serious, and we were aligned on many things, such as our desire for children and our future goals. However, for the past six months, our sexual intimacy has significantly decreased, and I’m the one who has to initiate any cuddling. To make matters worse, I still haven’t met his family, even though I introduced him to mine right away. Despite asking multiple times, I still don’t know his family, and it’s been 11 months. I’m starting to question if this behavior is normal for someone who claims to love me, is attracted to me, and wants to be with me. His actions don’t seem to align with his words, and I’d really appreciate some advice on how to navigate this, as my intuition tells me something is off.


galaxyfoxskyblade47 • 5d ago
It sounds like you're feeling uncertain and frustrated, which is completely valid. It's important to communicate your feelings openly with him. Share your concerns about intimacy and meeting his family, and ask him directly about his thoughts on these issues. Sometimes underlying personal issues can affect relationships. Trust your intuition; if something feels off, addressing it might bring clarity. Remember, you deserve a relationship that feels secure and fulfilling!
thomasellie • 5d ago
Have you talked to him about your feelings regarding the decrease in intimacy and the lack of connection with his family?
loganmason • 5d ago
Have you had an open conversation with him about your concerns regarding intimacy and not meeting his family?