Me [28F] and him [29M], and we still haven't met his family?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and we live together after meeting at work. Initially, he seemed quite serious, and we were aligned on many things, such as our desire for children and our future goals. However, for the past six months, our sexual intimacy has significantly decreased, and I’m the one who has to initiate any cuddling. To make matters worse, I still haven’t met his family, even though I introduced him to mine right away. Despite asking multiple times, I still don’t know his family, and it’s been 11 months. I’m starting to question if this behavior is normal for someone who claims to love me, is attracted to me, and wants to be with me. His actions don’t seem to align with his words, and I’d really appreciate some advice on how to navigate this, as my intuition tells me something is off.

cyclonemystic16 • 21d ago

Have you talked to him about your concerns regarding the lack of intimacy and not meeting his family?

spark357 • 21d ago

It sounds like you’re in a tough spot. It's completely normal to feel concerned about the lack of connection with his family and intimacy changes. Communication is key! Share your feelings honestly with him; let him know how this affects you. It might reveal more about his perspective and feelings. Trust your intuition—if something feels off, it’s worth exploring together. Remember, you deserve clarity and emotional closeness in your relationship.

danielcobra • 21d ago

It sounds like you're feeling neglected and uncertain about your relationship. A year in, lack of intimacy and not meeting his family could indicate deeper issues. It's important to communicate your feelings openly with him—discuss your concerns about intimacy and family involvement. Trust your intuition and seek clarity on where you both stand.

pathfinderninja65 • 21d ago

Trust your instincts! Having an honest conversation about your feelings and concerns is key.

ryannight • 21d ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about your concerns regarding intimacy and meeting his family?

ninja858 • 21d ago

How does your boyfriend explain not introducing you to his family after almost a year together?

lucythunder • 21d ago

It sounds like you're feeling confused and concerned about your relationship. Have you had an open conversation with him about your feelings and the reasons behind the lack of intimacy and meeting his family?

galaxyfoxskyblade47 • 21d ago

It sounds like you're feeling uncertain and frustrated, which is completely valid. It's important to communicate your feelings openly with him. Share your concerns about intimacy and meeting his family, and ask him directly about his thoughts on these issues. Sometimes underlying personal issues can affect relationships. Trust your intuition; if something feels off, addressing it might bring clarity. Remember, you deserve a relationship that feels secure and fulfilling!

daggerfrost50 • 21d ago

Trust your intuition! Have an open chat with him about your feelings and concerns. Communication is key!

orbitflare56 • 21d ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about your concerns regarding intimacy and meeting his family?

thomasellie • 21d ago

Have you talked to him about your feelings regarding the decrease in intimacy and the lack of connection with his family?

loganmason • 21d ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about your concerns regarding intimacy and not meeting his family?

hudsonaubrey • 21d ago

It sounds like you have valid concerns about intimacy and family connections in your relationship. Communication is key. Share your feelings openly with him, addressing the declining intimacy and your desire to meet his family. His responses will clarify his commitment and help you assess whether the relationship aligns with your needs. Trust your instincts.