Is my girlfriend [22F] no longer interested in me? [23M]

Hey everyone! My girlfriend and I have been together for almost four years, and I’ve noticed that our sexual chemistry has gradually shifted more towards a friendship. I often try to initiate intimacy, but she frequently seems tired or just not in the mood. We only have sex about twice a month, which feels low for my age. I make an effort to be flirtatious and romantic, but it seems like she doesn’t have the same sexual desire for me anymore. I rarely ask for oral sex, but it would be nice to feel desired or have her offer it occasionally. I take care of myself, maintain good hygiene, and strive to be a loving partner by bringing her flowers, planning dates, and treating her well. Is it common for women to lose sexual desire for certain partners?

gabrielflare • 8d ago

Open communication is key! Talk to her about your feelings and see how she feels too.

noahisabella • 7d ago

Hey! I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It’s not uncommon for sexual chemistry to fluctuate in long-term relationships. Openly communicating with her about your feelings could help. Maybe find out if there are any underlying issues or changes in her life that could be affecting her desire. Good luck!

frostgalaxy27 • 7d ago

Have you talked to her about how you're feeling regarding the shift in intimacy and your concerns about your relationship?

nathandragon • 7d ago

Have you discussed your feelings about the changes in your sexual chemistry with her?

bearicefang83 • 7d ago

It can happen in relationships. Open communication is key—talk to her about how you feel.