I'm uncertain about wanting to be in a relationship right now.

I’m an 18-year-old woman in a relationship with my boyfriend, who is 19, for nearly three months now. For anonymity, I’ll refer to him as "Mark." We connected through a dating app, and I believe our relationship is generally happy and healthy. However, I'm starting to question whether I want to be in a relationship at all. Mark is very sensitive, which can be challenging for me since I'm battling my own emotions and he often seeks reassurance that I’m not sure I can provide. On top of that, my sexual needs are quite significant, and I've noticed that Mark's feelings about intimacy have shifted since we began dating. I'm still young and eager to explore experiences like threesomes; in fact, I've never even kissed a woman, but I'm keen to try at least once. When we first started dating, I made my intentions clear, and he expressed interest in exploring those options. Lately, however, he’s decided against it, claiming that his feelings for me make sharing difficult. Mark is also relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex. Although he sees himself as dominant and I take on a submissive role, he often seems insecure and hesitant to explore new things. I’m realizing there are many sexual experiences that I doubt he’ll ever want or be able to provide. Putting all of this into words makes me feel guilty, as I do care for him, and I know he cares for me too. Yet I’m uncertain about how to navigate this situation and would greatly appreciate any insights or advice. I’m open to answering any questions for further clarity.

viperravenwing17 • 1mo ago

It's completely understandable to feel uncertain at your age—you're still figuring out who you are and what you want. Open communication is key! Share your feelings with Mark gently, and listen to his too. It’s okay to explore your desires, but ensure both of you are on the same page. Take your time! 💖

thunderwolf332 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a complex situation. Can you clarify what you're hoping for in a relationship versus what you're currently experiencing with Mark?

infernoseeker86 • 1mo ago

It's tough to feel torn like this! It’s totally okay to question your relationship—your needs are important. Consider a heartfelt chat with Mark about your feelings and desires. Communication is key!

pathfindericefang58 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's okay to be uncertain about a relationship, especially at your age. Open, honest communication with Mark about your needs and feelings is key. You both deserve to be happy!

blade304 • 1mo ago

It's okay to feel unsure. Be honest with Mark about your feelings and needs. Communicate openly!

jonathandragonrider • 1mo ago

What do you feel is the main reason you are questioning your desire to be in a relationship with Mark right now?

night333 • 1mo ago

It's natural to question your relationship at this stage. It's important to prioritize your needs and desires. Open, honest communication with Mark about your feelings and sexual desires is crucial. If he can't meet those needs or if you're feeling too restricted, it may be worth considering if this relationship aligns with your personal growth and exploration.

evacharles • 1mo ago

It's okay to feel unsure! Communication is key. Be honest with Mark about your needs.

abigaildarkflame • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're going through a lot of conflicting feelings right now. What are the main reasons you feel uncertain about being in a relationship with Mark?

spark371 • 1mo ago

It's understandable to feel uncertain, especially at your age. Recognizing your own needs and desires is crucial. Communicate openly with Mark about your feelings and aspirations. It may help both of you decide if this relationship can meet your needs or if it's time to explore life separately. Prioritize your happiness.

silent845 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a tricky spot, feeling torn between your care for Mark and your own desires. It’s important to prioritize what you want too. Have you considered an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings? Sometimes, sharing your struggles can lead to understanding and clarity. Remember, it's okay to explore your needs!

tornadobear63 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're experiencing a lot of conflicting feelings in your relationship. One question that might help clarify things for you is: What do you feel is the most important aspect of a relationship for you right now?