I, a 20-year-old male, discovered that my girlfriend, who is 23, has been intimate with over 100 people and may be cheating on me.

Hi there, We've been in a relationship for six months, and recently she mentioned that she's not fully satisfied in our intimate life. She suggested that I should try using a sleeve, which was really upsetting to hear. I've always considered myself to be of average size, so I was surprised to learn that I hadn't met her needs. To make things more complicated, I found out that she's been with over 100 people in the past, and while she insists she’s never cheated on me, I discovered some texts that are making me question everything. What should I do?

aidenrogue • 1mo ago

How do you feel about her past and the current intimacy issues in your relationship?

auroraviper • 1mo ago

Hey there! It’s tough to feel this way, especially when trust is shaken. Talk to her openly about your feelings and concerns. Communication is key! Take care of yourself.

tornadorebel25 • 1mo ago

It sounds tough. Trust is key. Talk to her about your feelings. Honesty is crucial.

landonspark • 1mo ago

Hi! It sounds like you're in a tough spot, and your feelings are completely valid. Communication is key in any relationship. Consider talking to her about your concerns, especially regarding intimacy and the texts you found. Express how her past and suggestions are affecting you. Trust is vital—if you can’t shake your doubts, it might be worth reflecting on whether this relationship is right for you. Take care of yourself!

wanderer594 • 1mo ago

How do you feel about her past and the current situation with your relationship?