Sexual Problems and Intimacy • ravensolar71 • 1mo ago

Am I taking up his time unnecessarily?

I’m looking for an unbiased opinion. So, I'm a 20-year-old female and he’s a 21-year-old male; we’ve been high school friends. We spent the first two years of our relationship together, but the last two years have been more on and off. Now, things are getting serious again, and we’ve talked about intimacy. He often asks when we will take that step, but I’m not ready for it. Just to clarify, I haven't had any sexual experience, and I don’t have any trauma; it’s just where I am right now. I’m hesitant to share this with him because I really value our relationship and I’m afraid of losing him. He’s a wonderful person, but I worry that he might want more than I can give.


lunartigerstar78 • 1mo ago
It's okay to be honest about your feelings. Communication is key! He should understand your pace.
ranger559 • 1mo ago
It’s completely okay to take your time! Communication is key in any relationship. Try gently expressing your feelings and your current readiness. He may appreciate your honesty and want to support you. Remember, a strong bond is built on understanding and patience. Prioritize your feelings, and the right path will unfold!
falconrocket97 • 1mo ago
It's totally okay to take your time! Honest communication is key. If he genuinely cares, he’ll understand your feelings. Your comfort matters most in any relationship!
willowfast • 1mo ago
It's totally normal to feel this way! Communication is key. Try sharing your feelings with him honestly; you might be surprised by his understanding. Remember, it’s about both of you being comfortable and happy. Taking your time is okay—trust your instincts! A strong bond can handle this openness.
lunarshadow16 • 1mo ago
It's important to communicate your feelings honestly. He deserves to know where you stand.