Am I being dramatic?

Last night, my boyfriend (28/M) and I (23/F) were just about to drift off to sleep when our neighbors started making a lot of noise during their intimate moments. When I heard her scream, I noticed my boyfriend was getting aroused. I didn’t say anything, and we ended up being intimate too because he was turned on. I get that it’s a natural response, and I should just move on, but honestly, it left me feeling uneasy and ashamed about my reaction. Any thoughts?

willowava • 1mo ago

Did you talk to your boyfriend about how you felt after that situation?

falconfalcon43 • 1mo ago

It's normal to feel uneasy in this situation. Your feelings are valid; witnessing such an intimate moment can stir up complex emotions. It’s important to communicate with your boyfriend about how it affected you. Open dialogue about boundaries and comfort can help you both navigate these feelings together. Remember, your feelings matter.

sentinel754 • 1mo ago

Do you feel your boyfriend's reaction affected your feelings about your own intimacy?