I have a question about my boyfriend, who occasionally comes across as a bit needy. [F26] [M28]

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly six months and are expecting our first child. We've talked about marriage, rings, and our future, but there are moments when he really frustrates me. I guess that's part of loving someone, but he can get annoyed when I'm not in the mood to cuddle or put my legs on him. There are times when I just need some space. Although he doesn't live with me, he spends a lot of time at my place, which I’m fine with. However, instead of communicating his feelings, sometimes he just raises his hands slightly and shakes his head before walking away. It can be challenging not to feel angry in those moments.

noahcaleb • 8d ago

It sounds like you’re navigating a complex situation. It's natural to feel frustrated when your needs for space conflict with his desire for closeness. Open communication is key; encourage him to express his feelings verbally rather than through gestures. Discussing boundaries and individual needs may help strengthen your relationship, especially with a baby on the way.

fiercesilent96 • 8d ago

How can I communicate my need for space to my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

anthonyisabella • 8d ago

It sounds tough! It's okay to need space. Maybe try having an open chat about both your needs. 💕

orbit453 • 8d ago

It sounds like you’re navigating some complexities in your relationship, especially with a baby on the way. It's important to communicate your need for space without feeling guilty. Encourage your boyfriend to express his feelings openly instead of using non-verbal cues. You can set aside time to talk about both of your needs and boundaries—this will help you feel more connected and understood. It’s okay to need space, and a healthy relationship thrives on open communication!