Long-Distance Relationship Without Communication

I'm currently facing a challenging situation. I've been in an online relationship for the past 1.5 years with someone I truly care about ('20F' and '24M). We've connected through video calls and chats but haven’t met in person yet. He just got a job as a police officer and starts his training tomorrow. Unfortunately, phones aren’t permitted at the training camp, which means we won't be able to communicate during that time. We were planning to meet this Christmas, but those plans have changed. He’s starting his training tomorrow, and I’m feeling really anxious about how I’ll cope with the next year. I would appreciate any advice or support.

lunar205 • 1mo ago

It’s completely understandable to feel anxious! Try to channel this time into positive activities or hobbies that you enjoy. You can also write him letters that he can read later—it's a nice way to stay connected. Trust that your relationship can endure this challenge, and use the time apart to grow individually. Focus on your own well-being, and when you meet again, it will be even more special. You’ve got this!

madelynskylar • 1mo ago

How do you feel about finding new ways to stay connected during this time, even if it's not through direct communication?

neptuneneptune52 • 1mo ago

It’s tough being apart, especially now. Focus on the positives—he’s starting an important job! Write him letters or messages to send later. Connect with friends for support. You’ve got this!