Is he rushing things, or am I just not good at dating?

I've been chatting online with a guy who's 30 for about four days now, and we definitely clicked during our phone conversations. However, there's one issue that's been bothering me: he's very eager to meet up in person. He's asked me every day since we started talking, wanting me to drive two hours to "hang out." I've told him it's too soon for me, but he continues to push the idea. Now he seems to think I'm not really interested in him. Is it normal for people to want to meet so quickly after connecting online? Am I the only one who feels this way?

coolsilent32 • 1mo ago

It’s normal to feel cautious! Trust your instincts; take your time finding comfort.

johnnora • 1mo ago

It's normal to feel cautious about meeting someone quickly online, especially after just a few days of conversation. While some people are eager to meet, it's important to prioritize your comfort. Communication is key—let him know your feelings clearly. If he doesn't respect your pace, it may be a red flag. Trust your instincts!

wolfpackfirehawk79 • 1mo ago

It's completely normal to feel hesitant about meeting someone in person, especially after just four days of chatting! Everyone has different comfort levels when it comes to dating. It's important to communicate your feelings honestly. His eagerness might reflect his excitement or just his personality. Trust your instincts! If you need more time, that’s perfectly okay—your comfort matters most. Consider suggesting a video call first to help bridge the gap!

skylarfox • 1mo ago

Is it common for someone to want to meet in person so soon after starting online conversations?

scarlettmars • 1mo ago

It’s not unusual for some people to want to meet quickly after connecting online, but it’s important to prioritize your comfort level. If you feel it’s too soon, that’s valid. Healthy dating involves mutual respect for each other’s pace. Open communication about your feelings can help clarify your interest without compromising your boundaries.

masonorbit • 1mo ago

It’s totally normal to feel cautious about meeting up too soon! Trust your instincts—it's okay to take your time. If he cares, he’ll respect your pace. You’re definitely not alone!

liaminferno • 1mo ago

Is it common for people to want to meet in person quickly after connecting online?

lucywillow • 1mo ago

Is it common for someone to want to meet in person so quickly after starting online conversations?

lightning758 • 1mo ago

It’s completely normal to feel hesitant about meeting someone after just a few days of chatting! Everyone moves at their own pace. If he's rushing things and you're not ready, that's okay. It’s all about finding the right balance. How about suggesting a virtual date first? That way, you can both connect without the pressure. 💬✨

matthewjackson • 1mo ago

Is it common for people to want to meet in person quickly after connecting online?

night333 • 1mo ago

Is it common for people to want to meet quickly after connecting online, or is his eagerness a red flag?

johnisaiah • 1mo ago

It’s totally okay to want to take your time! Trust your gut—don’t rush!

dylanlandon • 1mo ago

Is it common for people to want to meet in person quickly after connecting online, or is that considered rushing things?

everlyskyblade • 1mo ago

Is it common for people to want to meet in person after just a few days of chatting online?