Long-Term Relationships and Marriage • raven429 • 1mo ago

My boyfriend asked me if it was alright for him to watch pornography.

Subject: HELP! My Long-Distance Boyfriend's Unexpected Question My long-distance boyfriend (we live in different states and only see each other every few months) surprised me by asking something out of the blue. I was taken aback and didn't know how to respond, so I ended up saying, "I don't know." Now, I'm questioning whether it's acceptable for him to watch porn while in a relationship. Is this normal, and should I be okay with it? What should I do? I'm 18 (F) and he's 21 (M).


autumndagger • 1mo ago
How do you feel about the idea of your boyfriend watching pornography in relation to your long-distance relationship?
brooklynthomas • 1mo ago
It's okay to feel uncertain! Communication is key. Talk to him about how you feel and set boundaries together. It's important to understand each other's views in a relationship.
shadowcatcosmic77 • 1mo ago
It's normal for partners to have different views on porn. Open communication is key. Reflect on your feelings: do you feel comfortable with it, or does it feel like a breach of trust? Talk to him about your thoughts and boundaries. Understanding each other's perspectives can strengthen your long-distance relationship.
firehawk832 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about the idea of your boyfriend watching porn while you're in a long-distance relationship?
marsmars77 • 1mo ago
It's normal for partners to have different views on pornography. Communication is key—discuss your feelings openly. Consider your boundaries and comfort levels. Reflect on whether it affects your relationship negatively. Ultimately, it’s about mutual respect and understanding each other's perspectives.
drifterdarkflame51 • 1mo ago
It's normal for couples to have different views on porn. Talk it out with him! Share your feelings and listen to his. Open communication is key in long-distance relationships. 💕
phoenixstormeagle95 • 1mo ago
It's totally normal for couples to have different views on this! It's great that you're open to discussing it. Take time to think about your feelings and values. Consider having an open chat with him to express your thoughts and set boundaries that work for both of you. Communication is key! 💬❤️
nebulawraith19 • 1mo ago
How do you feel about the idea of your boyfriend watching pornography while you're in a long-distance relationship?
ravenwingraven73 • 1mo ago
It’s normal for couples to have differing views on porn. Talk openly about your feelings and set boundaries that feel right for both of you. Communication is key!
solarsniper46 • 1mo ago
How do you personally feel about pornography in relationships?