Here are the pros and cons of my boyfriend. I'd appreciate your feedback and opinions.

For context, I'm a 20-year-old female, and he’s a 21-year-old male. We're in a semi-long-distance relationship, seeing each other about once a month, and we’ve been together for two years. Both of us are currently in college, and I also work part-time. **Pros** 1. He’s very affectionate and loves to cuddle, which makes me feel desired. 2. It’s clear he’s attracted to me; he expresses a strong desire for intimacy, which I appreciate. 3. He encourages me to be my healthiest self, reminding me to take my medication, eat well, exercise, keep up with schoolwork, and attend classes. 4. He provides comfort during tough times, especially since I live with my parents, who have a tumultuous relationship. My dad's alcoholism leads to frequent arguments that are hard for me to witness. He offers support and has suggested moving in together to help me escape that situation. When I’m upset, he tries to distract me. 5. His loyalty is unwavering. He shows little interest in other girls, and his social media is filled with fitness videos and memes. He doesn’t communicate with any girls apart from me, and I have his phone password, which gives me peace of mind regarding his trustworthiness. 6. We easily connect on many topics, including politics, spirituality, humor (which is vital), future family goals, and our tastes in things like homes and clothing. He doesn’t do drugs or drink often, which aligns with my values. 7. He makes me feel safe and cared for. Once, when I had too much to drink and got sick, he took care of everything, from cleaning up to helping me shower and get comfortable again. Despite my embarrassment, he was nothing but supportive. **Cons** 1. He can be quite cheap. While I understand the value of being frugal, his penny-pinching can become irritating, especially since he isn’t struggling financially. He could easily get a part-time job like I do but doesn’t want to. 2. He rarely gives gifts. Despite knowing how important this is to my love language, he doesn’t offer anything like flowers, love notes, or even a simple candy bar. I’ve expressed my feelings about this multiple times, but he hasn’t changed. He even mentioned he “doesn’t really want to” but agreed to try only after I insisted. 3. He shows little interest in activities I enjoy and won’t even pretend to like them for my sake. If I suggest a walk, he typically declines. It’s rare for him to agree to do something I enjoy, like pottery painting, even though I make an effort to participate in his interests. 4. He often criticizes my spending, even when it’s for him or not extravagant. It’s rare for him to acknowledge anything positively when I buy something. 5. He seems unambitious about his future. When we talk about our life ahead, he appears resigned to a mundane 9-5 desk job, lacking passion or goals to change that path despite knowing he wants more. 6. Although he finds me attractive, his reactions when I model clothes for him often feel distracted or uninterested. He acknowledges me if I'm in something particularly revealing but doesn’t respond as many girls would hope for. 7. He can be very stubborn, believing he’s right about everything, even when I have evidence to the contrary. Admitting he’s wrong or being open to new information is a challenge for him. 8. His stubbornness extends to working through conflicts. It often takes considerable effort for him to acknowledge my feelings and say he’ll work on himself for my sake. For instance, when I expressed my desire for us to walk my dog, he didn’t validate my feelings and instead emphasized his own indifference. 9. Occasionally, he spends too much time flexing and posing in the mirror while I’m trying to engage him in conversation. I find him attractive, but it can feel a bit out of place when I'm looking for connection. 10. I often feel unappreciated. I try hard to engage in his interests, cook for him, and do thoughtful things like having breakfast ready when he visits. Yet, he rarely acknowledges these efforts on social media or in any significant way, which leaves me feeling like my gestures go unreciprocated. While I understand it may seem trivial, it would mean a lot to me if he expressed his appreciation more openly.