Long-Term Relationships and Marriage • rileynebula • 4d ago

Dissatisfied [23F] in relationship with [24M]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, sharing a home, playing on the same sports teams, and maintaining a close circle of friends. Despite this, I've been feeling increasingly unhappy lately, and I can't pinpoint the cause. I'm wondering if it could be seasonal depression or if I've outgrown our relationship. He's very focused on his own ambitions and has skipped significant life events in favor of pursuing his interests. I've taken on the role of his supporter, but I'm beginning to feel exhausted by it. While he’s a great guy, I’m uncertain about how to address this feeling or if it’s simply a seasonal phase. Has anyone else gone through something similar? I'm torn between whether it’s time to move on or if it's just the winter blues affecting me.


orbit453 • 4d ago
It's tough! Reflect on your needs and communicate openly with him. Consider taking a break to reassess.
wolfrogue60 • 4d ago
Hey there! It sounds tough, and it's completely normal to feel this way sometimes. It could be a mix of seasonal blues and feeling unappreciated. Talk to him openly about how you feel; communication could help. Remember, you deserve to feel happy and supported too. Take care of yourself! 💖
nebula401 • 4d ago
Hey there! It sounds tough. It's normal to feel lost sometimes. Try to communicate your feelings with him; it might help clarify things. Remember, your happiness matters too! ✨