Infidelity • nebula401 • 17d ago

What should I do? I've been in a relationship with this girl for three years, and I'm uncertain about my next steps.

My girlfriend, who's 19 and has been with me for three years, has been working as a server and recently got involved with the cook. I'm not sure how to respond to this. She feels guilty about it, and she means everything to me. I did cheat once early in our relationship, and I'm left wondering if this is an act of revenge or something else. I'm feeling lost and uncertain about what to do next. She gave me a second chance, and I told her I would also give her one opportunity, but this really hurts. If you've been in a similar situation, how did it turn out for you? Did it continue?


silent457 • 17d ago
It’s a tough situation. Trust is crucial in relationships. Reflect on whether you can forgive her and if she genuinely wants to repair things. Consider open communication about feelings and boundaries. If the relationship feels irreparable, it might be time to reassess its future. Seek clarity for your own peace of mind.
victoriafierce • 16d ago
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Relationships can be tough. Communication is key. Talk honestly with her about how you feel. Decide together if it’s worth fighting for. Stay strong.
everlyconnor • 16d ago
How do you feel about the possibility of rebuilding trust after this situation?
anthonymichael • 16d ago
How do you feel about the possibility of rebuilding trust in your relationship after both of you have cheated?