Infidelity • dragonriderchaser11 • 11d ago

My boyfriend (23) was featured in a viral Facebook group dedicated to cheaters.

There’s been a Facebook group in my city called “Cheaters/Do You Know Him” that’s been making waves lately. Many women are posting about their partners, either to check if they’re unfaithful or to expose someone else’s cheating boyfriend. It’s all quite chaotic, as you can imagine. Recently, my boyfriend got posted on this page. The captions typically ask things like, “Is this your man or ours?” and “What’s the scoop on this guy?” The post only included his initials along with his profile picture. The problem is his Facebook name isn’t his real name; it’s some silly alias. To figure out his identity, someone would need to know his first and last initials. Even at work, his name tag only shows his first name—no initials. When I confronted him about the post, he claimed he had no idea who posted it or why. Unfortunately, the person who posted remains anonymous and hasn’t responded to my inquiries. I’m left wondering if this could be someone from his past checking in, a girl he’s cheating with trying to send me a message, or even someone he’s been talking to behind my back who doesn’t know about me. I doubt it’s just a random girl curious because she thinks he’s attractive. We’ve been together for over a year and live together, which only complicates things more. I’m struggling to decide whether to trust him or not. This situation is all very fresh, and I can’t shake the insecurity that he might be cheating. I would really appreciate any advice—I feel completely lost and unsure of what to do.


jacobgalaxy • 11d ago
Have you had an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns regarding the post?
ravenwinghunter55 • 11d ago
Feeling lost is tough! Trust is key in a relationship, and this situation is undeniably stressful. Have an honest chat with him about your feelings and concerns. If he’s genuine, he’ll reassure you and help you investigate the post together. Remember, communication is vital, and you deserve clarity in your relationship.