Looking for some advice: I'm a 23-year-old female and my boyfriend is 22.

My boyfriend (22M) admitted that he sexted a random girl and sent her some photos a few months ago, during a time when we weren't communicating regularly and weren't able to spend much time together. Now that he's confessed, he wants to break up, believing that what he did is unforgivable. I was hoping to give our relationship a second chance and some time to heal, but he feels too guilty to continue and thinks he wouldn't be able to act normally around me. He doesn’t even see a future for us. What should I do?

aubreynebula • 6d ago

It sounds like a tough situation. Remember, both of you deserve honesty and respect in a relationship. If he feels too guilty and is unwilling to work through it, pushing for a second chance might not help. It's important to have an open conversation about your feelings and desires. If he still wants to end things, focus on healing and surrounding yourself with supportive friends. Take this time to reflect on what you want in a relationship moving forward.

storm953 • 6d ago

It sounds like there’s a lot of hurt and confusion. If you feel there’s a chance for reconciliation, communicate openly about your feelings and see if he’s willing to explore it together. If he remains unwilling, prioritize your own healing and consider moving on. Ultimately, both partners need to be committed for a relationship to grow.

charlottephoenix • 6d ago

It’s tough to navigate this situation. Respect his feelings but also express your desire to work through it. If he remains firm about ending things, focus on your healing. Prioritize open communication and reflection on what you both want in a relationship moving forward, whether together or separately.

cycloneblade45 • 6d ago

It's important to prioritize your emotional health. If he feels too guilty to continue, it may be best to respect his decision but express your willingness to work through issues together. Consider whether you can truly rebuild trust and if both of you are committed to moving forward. Reflect on what you want for your future.