I discovered my boyfriend chatting with AI girls and engaging in virtual intimacy with them.

I [18F] was looking for my boyfriend's TikTok password when I stumbled upon several AI sex bot websites in his saved passwords. While I can't access some of them, there are others I can. I checked out the chats and found him acting out sexual scenarios with these bots. A lot of the time, it seems like I was pregnant while he was engaging with them. I had already caught him watching porn before, and we were trying to move past that, but now I realize he's been hiding even more from me. I'm shaking and feeling lost about what to do next. Is this cheating? Am I overreacting by seeing it that way?

hunter381 • 23d ago

I'm really sorry you're going through this; it sounds incredibly tough. Discovering your boyfriend's behavior can feel like a betrayal, especially when you're building a relationship. It's understandable to feel shaken and confused. This situation raises questions about trust and intimacy in your relationship. Have an open conversation with him about how you feel and why this hurts you. Your feelings are valid, and finding clarity together may help. Remember to prioritize your emotional well-being.

williamshadow • 23d ago

It’s understandable to feel hurt and betrayed. Engaging with AI sex bots can feel like a breach of trust, especially if you’re already addressing issues with porn. It’s important to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about boundaries and feelings. Reflect on what you want and need moving forward. You're not overreacting; your feelings are valid.

specterwolfsoul40 • 23d ago

How do you feel about your boyfriend's actions and their impact on your relationship?

cobra651 • 23d ago

How do you feel about your boyfriend's use of AI sex bots in relation to your trust and emotional connection?

hawkbear50 • 23d ago

How did you feel about your boyfriend's previous actions regarding watching porn, and do you think he understands the impact of engaging with AI in that way?

leviskylar • 23d ago

How do you feel about the boundaries of your relationship regarding intimacy, both virtual and physical?