I [27F] feel lost and believe I have nothing left to contribute to my marriage with my husband [29M].

I recently went through an abortion, as I was uncertain about the paternity of the baby. I don’t know if my husband can have children, and the other person I was involved with wouldn’t want to raise a child with me. I haven’t confided in my husband about this, as I fear he would leave me for my infidelity. I’m struggling to find a way to move forward in our relationship when I feel so shattered inside. He’s unaware of what I’ve been through, so I can’t lean on him for support. He notices that I’m not putting in much effort into our relationship, but I feel empty and unable to give more. For years, I managed everything—paying our bills, keeping the house tidy, preparing meals, caring for our dogs, and handling grocery shopping. Yet, I was still expected to be available for intimacy whenever he desired. Now, he’s taken on some of those responsibilities and seeks praise for his efforts, wanting me to show my appreciation through affection and intimacy. I’m completely drained, though. We’ve been together for nine years and married for three, but things began to deteriorate toward the end of last year. How can I give when I feel so depleted? How can I reconnect with my husband?