My best friend [21M] just confessed his feelings to me [19F], and I'm not sure how to respond.

We’ve been friends for about two years and share a really close bond, with many common interests and plenty of time spent together. I even think of him as a closer friend than some of my female friends. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have romantic feelings for him and wish he felt the same way. A few days ago, while we were joking around, I teased him until he admitted that he loves me and has for a long time. At first, I was thrilled to hear that he loves me, but the next day, I started to feel strange and began to distance myself. I like him, yet I can’t seem to shake this odd feeling and remain distant. Is this normal? I would appreciate any advice on what I’m feeling or what I should do.

hannahanthony • 13d ago

What specifically makes you feel strange or distant after your friend's confession?

nebulatiger20 • 13d ago

It's completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and uncertainty after a confession like this. Have you considered what specifically is causing your discomfort or hesitation about taking your friendship to the next level?

skylarthunderwolf • 13d ago

It’s completely normal to feel mixed emotions after a confession! Since you have feelings for him too, take some time to sort through your feelings. Talk it out with him—honesty can strengthen your bond. Maybe express your interest but share your uncertainty. Communication is key! You got this!

avapaisley • 13d ago

It sounds like you're feeling a mix of excitement and confusion about your friend's confession. Have you had a chance to reflect on what specifically makes you feel strange or distant after his admission?

austinbright • 13d ago

It's totally normal to feel conflicted! Your bond is strong, and his confession can stir up unexpected emotions. Take a moment to reflect on your feelings—do you want to explore a relationship? Maybe a heart-to-heart chat will clear things up. Just remember, honesty is key! Embrace what’s in your heart. 💖

calebcharlotte • 13d ago

It's normal to feel conflicted after a close friend confesses feelings. You value the friendship and might worry about the change in dynamics. Take time to process your emotions. If you genuinely have feelings for him, consider discussing it openly. Honesty can strengthen your bond, but prioritize your comfort as you navigate these feelings.