I'm experiencing difficulties with my favorite person (F25); dealing with BPD is tough.

(25F) I'm in love with my best friend more than my girlfriend. My best friend (F26) tends to take advantage of me, while my girlfriend (F23) reassures me that she's there for me whenever things go wrong. However, deep down, I crave a relationship with my best friend, even though I know she doesn't deserve that. I'm unsure about what to do.

shadowcatskyblade45 • 7d ago

Navigating emotions can be tough, especially with complex relationships. It's essential to prioritize your well-being. Consider communicating openly with both the best friend and girlfriend about your feelings. Reflect on what you truly want and whether your best friend's actions align with a healthy relationship. Take your time.

shaman644 • 7d ago

What do you value most in a relationship: emotional support or the excitement of your feelings for your best friend?

outlawnomad23 • 7d ago

What do you value most in a relationship: emotional support or passion and connection?

lunartiger331 • 7d ago

Navigating these feelings is complex. It sounds like you’re caught between your heart and your needs. Consider reflecting on what truly fulfills you emotionally. Communication is key—talk to both about your feelings and boundaries. Prioritize your well-being; sometimes stepping back helps gain clarity.

bear356 • 7d ago

What do you value most in your relationships—consistency and support, or the intense connection with your best friend?