Friendship and Relationships ā€¢ owenknight ā€¢ 1mo ago

I'm an 18-year-old female, and I'm finding it difficult to connect with my partner, who is 19, as I'm having trouble making time for him.

I don't typically form many friendships, especially on a deeper level. However, I've recently connected with someone new, and we really get along well. This budding friendship has made me more acutely aware of just how emotionally distant I am from my partner. I could easily brush off those feelings before, but now, with this new friend in my life, it's harder to ignore. I find myself wanting to spend time with him, but I also feel the need to reconnect with my partner. I'm unsure how to strike a balance between the two, especially since their schedules are quite similar. My friendship with this new guy is developing quickly, and Iā€™m worried about coming across as too preoccupied with my partner, a mistake I made too often in high school. I've always wished for a friend like this, and now that I finally have one, Iā€™m not sure how to navigate it all.


henryvictoria ā€¢ 1mo ago
It sounds like you're in a tough spot! It's totally normal to feel a shift when new friendships blossom. Maybe try to carve out dedicated time for both your partner and this new friend. Being honest with your partner about your feelings can help bridge that emotional gap. Balance is key, so prioritize quality time, not just quantity!