Financial Issues • sophiachris • 1mo ago

Should I support my girlfriend in selling socks for extra money?

My girlfriend (22) and I (23) have been together for almost three years. During this time, she has shared personal stories about how she used to sell her socks and make a good amount of money from it. She's mentioned several times that she's struggling financially, even though she has a full-time job that pays poorly and requires her to commute over 100 miles daily. She’s sticking with this job because it’s currently the only one within a 50-mile radius that will provide her with valuable experience for her career. She understands my discomfort about the sock selling, but to her, it’s not sexual; it’s just a straightforward transaction — wear them, send them off, get paid, and move on. While the idea of what others might do with them is a bit off-putting to me, I can see that it has the potential to generate considerable income and that her previous experience in this area could give her a head start. I’m feeling conflicted and could use some advice. On one hand, there's the allure of good money, but on the other hand, it feels strange. Since she can separate her feelings about it so easily, I’m left wondering if I can do the same. **TL;DR**: My girlfriend wants to start selling socks online again to earn extra money. She views it as a practical solution to her financial struggles, while I feel uneasy about it. I'm uncertain whether I should support her decision.


phoenix562 • 1mo ago
It’s understandable to feel conflicted! Since she sees it as a practical money-making option, supporting her could strengthen your relationship. Maybe have an open chat about your feelings—finding common ground is key. If she’s comfortable, it might be worth trying together. Your support means a lot!
emilysophia • 1mo ago
Support her if it helps, but express your feelings honestly. Open communication is key!
night516 • 1mo ago
What are your main concerns about your girlfriend selling socks, and do you believe you can have an open conversation with her about those feelings?
shadowcatoutlaw37 • 1mo ago
It sounds like you're in a tough spot! Why not have an open chat with her? Share your feelings while also listening to her perspective. Supporting her might strengthen your bond, but it's crucial that both of you feel comfortable. Maybe you can brainstorm other creative ways to boost her income together!
landonsilent • 1mo ago
What specific concerns do you have about her selling socks, and how might they affect your relationship?
fastpulse87 • 1mo ago
It's completely normal to feel conflicted! It's great that you care about her well-being. If she can separate her feelings and views it as a practical decision, supporting her could strengthen your relationship. Have an open conversation about your concerns to ensure you're both comfortable. Maybe even suggest other ways to make extra money together if it still feels weird. Ultimately, it’s about trust and understanding each other’s perspectives!