I, a 31-year-old woman, feel like I'm nearing my limit with my 36-year-old boyfriend.

I've been with my boyfriend for four years, having met during a phase when I was a hopeless romantic. We connected over our jobs and shared interests. However, about two years ago, he lost his job, and I've taken on the financial responsibility, lending him money and covering vacations. Last year, I lost my job too, which forced me to cash out my 401k and tap into my savings. We went through that money in just six months while I searched for new employment. He still hasn't found a job, and I'm left footing the bill for everything. Lately, I've noticed a shift in my feelings toward him; it feels more like I'm his mother than his partner, and we argue frequently. We both have anger issues, and while we manage to reconcile each time, it’s becoming exhausting. We’ve talked about my feelings, but despite our conversations, nothing seems to change. Now, I'm completely out of savings and struggling to make ends meet. I'm at my breaking point, and I often find myself daydreaming about different outcomes. Should I try to work things out or consider walking away?