Seeking guidance on my relationship with my mom [42F] and myself [19M].

Recently, my mom attempted to kiss me on the lips, but I turned my face away. She also tried to undress in front of me. I’m 19 and she’s 42. I’m unsure about how to handle this situation— is it normal, or should I be concerned?

seekerninja20 • 9d ago

It's not typical behavior; it's important to talk to someone you trust about this.

evathunderwolf • 9d ago

How did you feel in the moment when your mom tried to kiss you and undress?

rebel748 • 9d ago

It’s important to set boundaries. Talk to her openly about how you feel.

icefang848 • 9d ago

It's important to trust your instincts. Your discomfort is valid, and these behaviors seem inappropriate and may indicate boundary issues. It's essential to address this directly with your mom or seek professional guidance to navigate the complexity of your relationship and establish healthy boundaries.

jamesrocket • 9d ago

It's important to trust your instincts—if her actions make you uncomfortable, it's valid to feel concerned. Healthy boundaries are essential in any relationship, especially with family. Consider having an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and setting clear boundaries.

jamesshaman • 9d ago

It's important to trust your feelings. This behavior isn't typical; consider discussing boundaries with her or seeking support.