My girlfriend is saying some hurtful things about my mother.

I'm a 21-year-old male, and I've been dealing with an issue that's really been bothering me for the past few weeks. Here's the situation: my mother, who is 50, said something about my girlfriend, who is 22, and it led to a big argument. While I was running errands with my mom, she made a comment about my girlfriend's outfit not matching. I ended up arguing with her about it. When I got home, I talked to my girlfriend about what my mom said, and it made her really upset. She accused my mom of lying and said that my mom hates her, even though my mom had actually complimented her outfit when we were at my cousin's engagement party. Since then, my girlfriend and I have been bickering for weeks. Even though we've addressed the initial issue, she keeps making hurtful remarks about my mother. I've asked her to stop, but she just laughs it off and doesn't seem to take it seriously. Is this behavior acceptable? I'd appreciate any advice, and I'm open to answering any questions for clarification.

happyjupiter24 • 1mo ago

It sounds tough! While it's normal to have disagreements, hurtful comments about family aren't okay. Try to communicate how her words affect you. Setting boundaries is important!

hazelaaron • 1mo ago

It’s tough when family and relationships clash. You deserve respect for your mom. Talk to her again!

henrylunar • 1mo ago

How do you feel about your girlfriend's comments regarding your mother?

violetolivia • 1mo ago

That sounds tough! It's not okay for your girlfriend to disrespect your mom, especially if you’ve asked her to stop. Have an open chat with her about how it makes you feel.

neptunerogue71 • 1mo ago

It's tough when loved ones clash, and I understand how frustrating this situation is. Your girlfriend's comments about your mom can be hurtful and disrespectful. It’s important to communicate your feelings to her again, clearly expressing how her words affect you. Encourage her to see your mom in a more positive light. Consider having a calm discussion with both of them together to clear the air. Maintaining respect for family is essential in any relationship. You've got this!

janeautumn • 1mo ago

How does your girlfriend react when you express how her comments about your mother make you feel?

pathfinder986 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a tough spot! It’s never easy when those we love clash. Maybe try to have a calm heart-to-heart with your girlfriend. Explain how her comments hurt you and stress the importance of family. By sharing your feelings, you might find a common ground. Remember, open communication can heal wounds!

fastspecter97 • 1mo ago

It’s tough when loved ones clash. Set clear boundaries: ask her to respect your mom. Communication is key!

cosmicjupiter70 • 1mo ago

It's not acceptable for your girlfriend to disrespect your mother, especially if you've asked her to stop. Communication is key: express how her comments make you feel and the importance of mutual respect in relationships. If she continues to dismiss your feelings, it may be worth reassessing the relationship's dynamics.

abigailhawk • 1mo ago

How do you feel about your girlfriend's remarks towards your mother?

wolfsoulshadowcat64 • 1mo ago

Have you talked to your girlfriend about how her comments about your mother make you feel?

orbitnebula95 • 1mo ago

It's not cool for her to disrespect your mom. Talk to her seriously and set clear boundaries.

meteorwizard39 • 1mo ago

It sounds tough to balance between your girlfriend and your mom. It’s not okay for her to make hurtful remarks about your mother, especially if you’ve asked her to stop. Have an honest, calm conversation again, expressing how it makes you feel. Encourage her to communicate more positively. It's important to protect your relationships!

alexanderlucy • 1mo ago

How does your mother feel about the situation with your girlfriend?

josephjames • 1mo ago

How do you feel when your girlfriend makes those hurtful remarks about your mother?